First Sleepover: Our Secrets

Sleepovers are a special milestone in a child's life! The first sleepover is often particularly exciting, but also full of questions for parents. At what age can you plan a night at a friend's, how do you know if your child is ready, what to do if the little guest or your child gets scared? On the occasion of the launch of our Doli Duvet, we share everything about organizing a successful sleepover for your child and their friends.
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Before sleeping over at a friend's… questions to ask yourself!

The big question on your mind: is your child ready to sleep somewhere other than home? If they've already spent a night at someone else's house, without their parents, and everything went well, then the answer is yes. If not, first try the experience at a close friend's or family member's place before venturing to a friend's. As for age, there are no rules. The child simply needs to feel comfortable with this new step. 

Organizing the sleepover

For this first sleepover, everyone needs to be relaxed — kids and grown-ups alike! Make sure you know the parents and the other child at least a little. Set a date, discuss everyone's habits. Plan a scenario and activities for the evening. Don't forget to talk about everyone's dietary and sleep habits — schedule, rituals, bedtime and morning routines, and pick-up time. Have a plan in case of a big nighttime panic or illness. 

Preparing the room or the bag

Prepare the child's room or their little bag with a change of clothes, a daytime outfit, pajamas, toiletries, their comfort toy, and a few small toys. 

Set out children's mattresses that will give a festive camping vibe… and will come in handy for the adult who may end up staying with the little sleepwalkers — speaking from experience!

Is your child the guest? Offer to bring their blankets and duvet. That way, your little one will keep their familiar comforts for this new night away. Discover our DOLI duvet, designed for these moments. Its backpack makes it a must-have for trips.

Handling the unexpected

Even with careful planning, unexpected things can happen during a sleepover. Have backup plans in case of sleep issues, fear, or homesickness. Also anticipate potential arguments or quarrels between the children by reinforcing the rules of conduct and encouraging open communication and mutual respect.

Reminding the rules

No need to channel your inner etiquette expert, but before the evening begins, take the time to establish clear rules that everyone can understand. Remind the children to respect other people's belongings… and the concept of sharing! Encourage them to cooperate and help each other throughout the evening. Make sure all the children understand the expectations and safety guidelines to avoid any incidents during the sleepover. 


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New: Doli Duvet, the ultimate sleepover companion

Say Good Night to Doli Duvet: our new organic cotton duvet and pillow duo, perfect to bring along in its little Charlie Crane backpack. This blanket is an everyday and travel duvet, a giant comfort blanket, a bonus play mat… Our Doli Duvet comes with a backpack that also ticks several boxes: storage pouch, carry bag, treasure bag when it's not holding the duvet.

Have a great sleepover!

The Charlie Crane team

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